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Hey, How you doing?🤙

It's been not more than a month watching F.R.I.E.N.D.S but I am totally in love with this. So I got my title from there, Joey's pet line.

So hey, how you doing?

How many times people ask us this and we end up saying yeah life is good or it's hell because we haven't got what we ever wanted in life. There's always two kinds. But how many times you actually asked yourself. Hey, me How you doing? Like never. We are so much lost into our lives that we even have forgotten to live.

I recently wrote a quote,

Aren't we being the generation,
who are catastrophic to themselves
engulfed in all materialistic things still looking for something for real.

This is real sad. I look at the young generation and even people of my age everyone is just slowly and slowly vanishing into the smoke of weed,packets of cigarettes,glasses of beer and what not chemicals they want to try not to stay ever sober in life. This is exciting, this makes you high, this is greatest fun, I admit but do it actually helps you to be something, something that no one can be. Does it makes you stand apart from the crowd. Ask this question to yourself? Is it really making your life happening?

I am just 23, I have lost my friends of my same age, and I have learnt one thing for sure, thrill is good until it doesn't kills you. I lost my friend, he used to do a lot of weed and really was much into all types of harmful chemicals. Everyone remembers him, but I am sure many just remembers him for being the guy who loved to being high. Very few people would remember him for being so supportive, for having so kind heart, for living in a moment, and for having zeal to do something in life. But he lost his life before it even actually had started. We always think we are still young it's really fun to have all this stuff now, but is it really actually an age of losing a life over achieving nothing just chemicals and weeds as your identity.

Life is not all smoke and hallucinations. It's more of being sober and facing the real world. Ask yourself the question, if your answer doesn't lands you in a situation where you can proudly say yes I am doing great, people will cherish my life even after I am gone. I have my identity apart from all the materialistic stuff. Then start thinking. Think about yourself, about what you doing to yourself.

Do you really want to be the person, who born, lives in all smoke and imaginary world and dies and no one even bothers after months. Or you really want to leave your remark in the world, so people would rejoice the way you lived, admire the personality you had owned throughout your entire life.

I am not against anything, but make sure whatever you do for fun doesn't becomes your identity.

Live before you Die.Stand and think to do something really big in your life that it becomes memorable for the world. It inspires the life, even if you inspire one single other life you have done really something great in your lifetime.

Achieving dreams is one thing, setting your dreams as others dreams is a lifetime achievement.

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